the cranky days

[Tricia]

Hey everyone...

Am I alone in those days? Not every day, but once in a while the whole idea of gluten free for life, just "getting" to me.

I was out for dinner and found myself so frustrated at having one choice on the menu - salad.

Or, being in the grocery store and looking at the shelves and shelves of food, knowing that less than 1% could conceivably go home with me.

And this was the big one, going for dinner at a friends place and actually being mad that they had gone out of the way to prepare the meal with me in mind...don't get me wrong, I was overwhelmed by the thoughtfulness, but also really angry that they had to...

Not meaning to gripe, because I know how fortunate I am that my struggle is with Celiac, something SO easy TO manage, but just wanting to know if there are other out there that have the cranky days.

[Dawniey]

Since when is Celiac EASY to manage???? I agree that it is so frustrating that it sems no matter where you go you need to pack a lunch!!! I thought that went out with grade school!?!? Anyway, no you are not alone.

I also appreciate when people try to cater to my "diet needs", but sometimes it is just not worth the effort. I finally started to cater all of our family meals b/c it was soooo much easier. I am also in the process of starting a gluten free bakery in my town.

But don't you really hate it when a pal( who is trying to be nice ) buys some incredibly NASTY tasting food just for you, b/c it is gluten free. I usually end up choking down some just do I don't hurt their feelings.

Oh Well...... I guess we have to live with it. The good news it that there are more and more foods that are going gluten free. YEAH!! And where I live that is a definate plus.

You are not griping, and if you are, you have a right to!!!

[Kari]

I have been sooo very frustrated with being gf. I try hard to not impose upon my friends, Bunco, BBQ's etc, that it wears me down. I often will decline an invite just to avoid the discussion of ingredients. My husband tries so hard, but he can't get it through his head that "organic" does not mean Gluten Free!! sigh....

On the plus side, I have lost 25 unwanted pounds since my diagnosis. That felt good and I try to hold onto that feeling when I get frustrated with my dining options. I miss bread the most. I think it's ok for us to have our cranky days, but then to realize we are pretty lucky compared to other issues. I'm grateful to find others who understand this, not just to offer sympathy.

[Tricia]

Hi Kari.

I get it. I remember losing that same weight (not sure if it was the healthier diet or depression - ha ha) but that was indeed the plus side. As I read your note I thought - she is following me around I'm sure of it!! (I used to play Bunco too).

I've found myself adopting a little different perspectives -- having people over, ordering from a few GF restaurants/caterers for special treats etc.

Thanks so much for your reply note.